Thursday 16 April 2020

Not So Perfect World



Dear Aarush and Aayra,

You are growing my dear kids. I want to welcome you in this not so perfect world of getting adult. It is really debatable that being a kid is easier than being an adult or vice versa. According to me, all ages have their own challenges its just your perspective on how you look at them. Whenever you do something and you ask me how you did it. I have a habit of saying perfect. But I want to tell you, this is a new perfect. An imperfect perfect. It means there is always a chance to get things better. It means there is always a scope for change. For this change, we should learn more about this not so perfect world of ours.
There are a lot of notions attached to a lot of things in our world. There are some pre-stated and sometimes unsaid rules and regulations or better say ideals set by others according to which perfection can be standardized, but you need to understand that all these could be true in one setting and false in other.
We all live with such imaginary rule books in our hands. From our point of view, perfection is to check all the points listed in it. But I want to tell you 

  • we know getting angry is bad but we do get angry sometimes
  • we know truth is the utmost reality but we still lie sometimes
  • we know love brings so much peace still we feel hatred sometimes
  • we know violence kills our inner self too but yes we do show some of it sometimes 
  • we do tell others to accept things and we behave stubbornly sometimes
  • we do need to keep faith in others but then also we lose it sometimes
  • and we do have many more such sometimes 

This a new world that is not so perfect but still beautiful and manageable for you to grow and can change. It seems difficult sometimes to face new challenges, struggles, studies, new environment, but it is not always that hard. Again it's just your perspective how you look at your perfect world. To survive in this not so perfect world my key mantra is to evolve as a person which could be easily done by reading and interacting. It gives you a chance to explore whats going on in the world and gives you an idea of what you can expect. Just don't be scared accept our not so perfect world and be a part of it fearlessly. 

Good Luck!!

This post is a part of Blogchatter’s A2Z challenge, #BlogchatterA2Z  on the alphabet 'N'. My theme for this challenge is ‘Letters to My Kids, learnings of life I want them to know when they grow up’. You can also look for the same under #jainnehas or @jainneha86 on Instagram and Twitter

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